Here is my problem of the moment. I have a patient that has been in and out of the hospital for years after a botched surgery. Every time he is discharged, he is back in the ED and admitted within 72 hours. That leads to another admission that lasts several months. When he starts to smell a discharge coming, he finds another problem to complain about that will get him a few extra days. Well, the nurses and the medical staff are now talking discharge and he is up to his old tricks.
A couple of days ago, I was called to his room because he wanted to talk to me about something. When I came in, he pulled out his “log book” with information about every nurse, CNA, physician or whomever has taken care of him and what they did, wrong or right. And, this patient and his family request to be on my floor every time they are admitted, and pitch a fit if they are placed on another floor until they get transferred to me.
I told them, that what they are doing builds distrust with the staff. If they feel like every single thing they do is going to be documented, they will not trust the patient or family and may even avoid his room entirely. I then went on to say that if they felt the need to document this information they it shows me they don’t trust us and that maybe the best course of action is to transfer him to another unit where he can trust the staff.
The best way to handle that difficult patient is to confront their behaviors directly. If they are complaining about your performance, ask them to be direct and tell you exactly what you did wrong and how they feel you could have been better. Maybe they are right and you are not aware of how you are, but maybe they don’t understand your job and responsibilities and with a little education they can learn something.
Being in the hospital is a stressful time for most people and they may from time to time lash out at us. But, usually, if somebody is confronted about their behavior they will change. Especially if they know that you are all working on the same team whose focus is their well-being.
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